Are you sincere or honest when you are talking to others?
Are you trying to use your “flowering” language to get benefits or advantages from others?
Do you have hidden agenda when you open your mouth?
Any personal interest or intention behind your speech?
If you are always think about “Yourself”, put first priority to protect yourself, gain personal interest, you are not going to enjoy true happiness and FREEDOM.
“If with a pure mind a person speaks or acts, happiness follows them like a never-departing shadow.”