Some of us, we are assuming our children is belong to us. We wanted to dictate their future based on our preferences. Simple example, we choose what is the best course for them without understanding the strength of children. We wanted our children to fulfill our Dream not theirs.
If our children are not following our plan, we are disappointed and suffered.
Soil is the mother to all plants, trees, flowers and others.
Without soil, nothing can grow. Soil never own any tree or plants.
Soil can’t guarantee that the tree can grow well and grow old, not being chopped, not fallen down after heavy downpour, not dying young and other circumstances.
This is the best example we can learn from nature. Nothing is belong to us.
We don’t “OWN” our children.
Let them to live their best life.
lijiun 