Some of us, we love to set high expectation in others especially with our closer family members, friends and also colleagues. When one of our family member is not able to do things as per our expectation, we might be frustrated and disappointed. We might start to grumble and complain, “Why can’t they do this for me?”
Instead of questioning “Why to others?”, Why not we change our angle of perspectives? Always ask, “Why should others do this for me?” “Why not I take the initiative and complete it?”
One of my friends loves to set high expectation to others, I can see her life is not full of happiness and positive energy, instead she is always living in complain, grumble, blame, dissatisfied and most of important lack of a heart of gratitude… She love to mention, “People should….”, “You should…” However, never ever put herself in other’s shoes. Why should we set high expectation in others and cause misery to ourselves? Why not release ourselves from such burden? Live freely!
And always bring happiness to other’s life. You are going to smile big when you don’t set expectation and also your heart is always fill with gratitude and loving-kindness!