finding fault…

Bring more laughter and smiles to your surrounding. Don't behave like the saying in Chinese proverb, "Picking bone in eggs." Free yourself!

Bring more laughter and smiles to your surrounding. Don’t behave like the saying in Chinese proverb, “Picking bone in eggs.” Free yourself!

How often do you give compliment to others?

Our eyes love to keep looking outside, some of us love to find fault in others.

We might spend a lot of time to look for imperfect or error in others instead of looking to ourself.

It’s so easy, normally we are so strict to others but so lenience to ourself.

We might even apply double standard, set a high standard to others but low standard to ourself.

Some of us feel more  superior if they are able to find fault in others. We love to chat about other’s fault too.

What benefits can you bring?

Instead of spending time to find fault in others, why not to spend precious time with yourself to  further understand your mind, transform yourself first before others ..

If you are keep seeing imperfect in others, its meant that you are imperfect too.

Gladly we desire to make other men perfect, but we will not amend our own fault.

By Thomas Kempis

Let’s spend more time to look inward instead of outward,give compliment, bring happiness to your surrounding instead of gossiping.

Gossiping will bring more harm to yourself and also your surrounding.

 

 

 

 

 

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6 responses to “finding fault…

  1. Lovely post and true words. I tend to have the opposite problem. I am very strict and unforgiving with myself, but I tend to be much more lenient with others.

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