Have you ever heard the voice of scolding?
How do you feel?
Some of us, when others make a slight error or not following their principle of life, they are starting to shout at people. They are going to raise their voice higher to highest when they think they are doing right and others doing wrong.
When they scolded people with louder voice, actually they are “HAPPY” as this will show their superiority and they are the “WINNER”. This action can further boast up and satisfied their ego.
Contemplate about it.
Is it necessary to scold people?
Is it the way to show your superiority?
Are you the winner or loser?
What is the chain effects?
Is it bring benefit?
Is it bring harm?
Do you bring suffering or happiness to other, yourself and the total environment?
When you started to scold people, you are going to raise your voice, you can’t control your emotion, your mind can’t think properly, you might say something which you are going to hurt others. Harsh words can be like a sharp knife which hurt people without bleeding.
You are going to hurt yourself and bring suffering to others.
Besides, your negative emotion will badly affect the total atmosphere not just the person you scolded, it’ll bring negative impact.
Why do you need to SCOLD?
When you are doing right, others doing wrong. Be patience and teach them.
Guide them by living as example instead of use your HARSH words to scold.
Do not speak harshly to any one; those who are spoken to will answer thee in the same way. Angry speech is painful: blows for blows will touch thee.