Recently, I read a story, it goes like:
“ A wife was cooking in the kitchen. Her hubby beside her, he kept asking:” Don’t put so much oil!”, “Reduce the salt portion.”, “Switch to low fire”, ”Put some water” and non stop giving instruction to his wife….
After a while, his wife unable to tolerate, she answered: “ My lovely hubby, I know how to cook a delicious dish, Thank you.”
Her hubby answered:” My lovely wife, I just want to let you know, how frustrated, how disturbing when you are keep giving instruction while I am driving. Now, you can understand about my feeling.”
What a beautiful story!
A lot of times, we are always thinking from our perspectives, we might neglect about others feeling.
In the name of love and care, we might put too much pressure and tension to others without our own realization.
This is also one of the contributor which trigger miscommunication happen.
In future, do think from other’s perspective, bring happiness and not unhappiness to others.