You might experience the below:
After a movie, you might heard from others on their negative comment, e.g if the movie director is using this angle, then the story might be interesting……..
After a concert, you might heard from others on their negative comment, e.g, if the singer can sing…..if the stage design……
After an event, you might heard from others on their negative comment, e.g, If I am the event planner, I’ll……..
Be mindfulness, listen to your surroundings, you might realize that there are so many negative energy instead of positive energy around us
A lot of people love to show off their intelligence, by pointing out other’s fault and mistakes and they love to say, : “If I am you, I’ll……..”
They forgot to say “Thank you” and look into other’s hard work.
It’s easy to point out other’s mistakes by using our mouth as we are not involved in the total process.
Some of us might be so disturb by other’s negative comment, they get so depressed or demoralize.
They are keeping carry this negative comment with them like a stone in their heart, become heavier day by day.
They refuse to let go….Why should we penalize ourselves by other’s negative comment!
There is a great teaching from Buddha:
Saliva falls back to the splitter
When an evil person tries to harm a holy person, it’s like splitting at the sky. The split cannot reach the sky but fall back to that person himself. Just like throwing a dust against the wind, the dust will not reach the other person but oneself. Holy person cannot be destroyed. The evil person will destroy no one but himself.
Relieve yourself from all negative comment which is untrue. Remember the saliva falls back to splitter.
Do not trap yourself in anger!
May you live in peace and harmony!